Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Party & Park

Since we started going to the Spanish Speaking Longview 4th Branch almost 3 years ago, James has loved playing with his favorite girl friend, Náthali. She celebrated her 4th Birthday Party on New Years Day and James and Jade had a lot of fun!

James & Náthali





Jaime Rivas (Náthali's Dad) & TJ




A lot of LDS moms in the area (from multiple wards and stakes) get together for our playgroup every Thursday morning. We try to go to a park in the area as long as teh weather is cooperative. It was my month to pick and I chose one of my old favorites - Teague Park. We had a great time playing with friends and there is so much to do there, including an old metal slide and play equipment that I miss.

I didn't get pictures of this part, but the kids and I went to the pond to wander around after our friends left. They've really improved the pond with a t-dock that goes out into the water near the fountain (added about 10 years ago) and a long railing where the path is right next to the water (added within the last year). From a distance I saw a beautiful musical mural on the amplitheater. I think I'll go up and get a closer look at it next time. The most impressive thing at the pond is the ducks and luckily I had some old bread and chips to feed them. We were particularly lucky to not only see the normal ducks of the pond, but also 2 large flocks of Canadian Geese. The kids loved feeding them and watching all their behaviors. It's such a great place to go to see and do so much. There's a pond clean-up next month so I look forward to helping keep it beautiful.

Some of my favorite memories at Teague Park:

- Grubbs family picture taken in late 1980s of all children and grandchildren of my maternal grandparents, Joy & William Grubbs (minus Hannah only because she wasn't born yet)

- Easter egg hunts on the hill by the old cemetary and amplitheater

- Clogging practice during Spring, Summer & Fall with our little Mom and girls group, The Quicksilver Cloggers

- Grade school performances at the amplitheater

- In middle school a group of my friends and I went there to mess around. We all had water guns and I ducked behind the huge concrete water fountain to dodge a shot from my friend and chipped my left front tooth. I went to the dentist to have it repaired and the "filling" lasted until just last year when it just chipped. I'm impressed it lasted 15 years or more.

- We must have had a few Young Men / Young Women activities there because I remember watching Joseph Karns, Chris Rogers & TJ playing around a lot. I remember TJ hanging upside down from one of the poles. It's hard to explain, but he would grab the pole close to the bottom and then throw himself in the air

- TJ and I had our engagement photos done there by my "best" friend, Kimberly.



Yes, we were definitely skinnier then, but we're still so in love :)

- Walking our dogs to the park and watching them go crazy about the ducks. My cousins, Hannah and Jordan walked with me one time when they came to stay a night.

Now, I get to enjoy this wonderful park with my kids.

Jade loves sliding! She just recently started trying it out wants to do it all by herself, of course.




James is showing his friend, Jackson, all about his phone. No, we do not have him on our cell phone plan. My dad gave him one of his old Alltel phones a couple years ago and we took the battery out for him to play with.



We look forward to many more memories to make at this beautiful place.



Side Note

Sadly, two strip clubs have opened up the hill from the park within the past 5 years. Pardon my frankness, but they don't deserve the honor of "gentlemen" for any reason. They are what they are. The park has enough "lingerers" to wonder what adults without children are doing hanging around in a park in the middle of the day. However, the new businsses up the hill doesn't make it anymore inviting for young mothers to bring their children. I remember when the only strip joints were outside of town, but obviously some people have no shame anymore. I've known some women and probably plenty of men (whom never mention to me they frequent such a place) who work or take their business to strip clubs. I know people make choices in life for many reasons, good or bad. However, I know that having a strip club so close to a park where children play is obscene at the least. I appreciate my friends who were willing to go there anyway. I understand most of them would never go alone, but I feel we brightened a place that needed it. I know it's not much, but I feel we can improve our communities more and more if we but take little efforts together to make them better. I don't think that park gets a lot of playgroup activity so I hope it gets to be a better place - rejuvinated by people going there doing good things. The Savior said, "Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven. Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven. And whoso shall receive one such little child in my name receiveth me" (Matthew 18:1-5). And the prophet, Thomas S. Monson spoke one time in conference saying, "Children then and children now bless our lives, kindle our love, and prompt good deeds." I know and feel this is all true. I have seen that the more people are around children, the kinder and more humble they are. What better way to have effect on adults making bad choices than to see children playing and laughing together? Evil cannot abide in such a place. I obviously don't believe in taking my children into dangerous circumstances. Their safety is of utmost concern to me always. Yet, we can, in small groups, go to places that need the sunshine of children.

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Last Day of 2010

We ate lunch at Cotton Patch with some of my Dad's side of the family. It was great get together and while we waited for everyone to show I had a little photo op outside (to get the wiggles out before eating too).


James "looking" at the camera.



James getting frustrated because he says he's looking at the camera, and yet he's still not.



Still "looking" at the camera....



I love this view of Jade, and her hat too.



Balancing so carefully then...



Determined to do it by herself and she is triumphant!



...FINALLY! Really looking the camera this one time. Alas, I still like the more genuine smile in the others.



My cousin, Breeze with her hubby and baby girl.



Granny Hane, Dad, & Noi



Uncle Guy trying to help Breeze out.



Last picture of family in 2010 - love them all!
*Notice Jade asleep on TJ. If she is tired, she will no way go to sleep with Mama. But pass her to Daddy and she's out in no time. Too bad he's not able to be around everytime this is needed. Go Daddy!

New Year's Eve Dance




Fun night with friends!



Kim & Marco Jamett




Kamie & Jose Herrera






Chicken Dance with Daddy





Cotton-Eye Joe Family




Jade found this little girl (who is 6 months younger than her) at the dance and they stuck together a lot. She loves babies. Even the ones that are bigger than her she recognizes as babies and treats them so sweetly.







YMCA - Got to start him early!





The glow into the New Year!


Maybe now I'll get to the new year.....

Tickle, Tickle

One of our favorite things to do as a family is tickle each other. We could go at it for an hour probably. Just a simple thing, but so much fun. TJ & I are both very ticklish, only I'm a little more violent when I am tickled than he is (Sorry for the bruises over the many years Babe!) So, I guess we've passed this "tradition" on to our kids and it's a lot of fun. Now James will say (almost daily),

"Mommy, when I say lets tickle Daddy, you say, 'Definitely!', OK?"






"PAUSE" to draw on Aquadoodle. This was Jade's Christmas present that she loves, and I love. Although, I still find crayon markings randomly on walls, doors, door jams, coffee tables, etc.



Now, back to tickling Daddy!

Monday, January 24, 2011

Eating, Friends, & Playing

Yes, I know I've fallen back on my resolution in two weeks. I'm playing catch up now.

These are some pictures just for fun from Dec.26 - Dec. 30, 2010:




Moab likes to watch the eating action. Of course, he would always volunteer to participate.


This was a different day, but it's so cute of Jade falling asleep eating. I obviously know when I've pushed the time limit on lunch when she falls asleep during the meal. James did it a couple times when he was little too and it's really too cute.


Our friends, Nathan & Elisa Simmons came to visit after Christmas. It was great to see them after 3 years and see their daughters Sarah and Rachel too. The kids had a great time playing together. James is showing Sarah his "GPS." It's an electronic translater that we didn't need and were going to toss out a couple years ago. James saw it and said it would be his GPS like Daddy's. He's so funny. We had a great time with Nate and Elisa and hopefully get to visit them in Utah this summer.


I found these leggings for Jade at a great "steal" at babysteals.com (love it!) TJ says they are so 80s, but I think my little doll looks just adorable, don't you?

Where is James?


THERE HE IS!

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Christmas Eve to Day - Yea!!

Christmas Eve was a little traumatic at times, but we also had a good time decorating cookies (thanks to Gran Gran for making them), singing, reading the Christmas story in the scriptures and the Night Before Christmas as read by grandparents we recorded last year. I almost think Christmas Eve is better than Christmas Day because of all the anticipation and excitement. We ended up having a really good family night. We got to visit TJ's Aunt Elaine with her daughters and grandchildren for lunch. Aunt Elaine lives right here in Longview, but we just don't get together very often. So, it's been a few years since we've seen her daughters Tonya or Tammy. We had a good visit catching up and eating great food.


James got his boots from Gran Gran & Paw Christmas Eve - just like Dad's!

That night we decorated cookies for Santa. Granny was gracious enough to let us use the cookies she's already made (because I didn't plan the timing out too well). So, we just got to enjoy doing the most fun part - decorating. Jade learned how to say "snow" when we were decorating with coconut. Only she says it "noooooooooo" with her mouth in a long vertical 'O' shape. Soooooooo cute! As you can see, decorating for Santa was a lot of licking!




We let the kids have a mini-tree in their room this year. Only unbreakable ones (of course) and it kept them away from the more fragile ones on the real tree too. All their excitement of Christmas Eve was caught up in these pics.





Last year we had all grandparents record in The Night Before Christmas book from Hallmark. Each page is someone different reading and they loved it!




My favorite part of Christmas Eve was reading the book, My First Christmas Story my Aunt Debby sent us one Christmas. We read the scriptures for a Family Home Evening, but this picture children's book of the first Christmas was also great to help the kids follow along. James always remembered what the angels told the shepherds, "Fear not." I know he doesn't know the meaning of it completely, but it's a stepping stone to the greater meanings of that message from angels announcing the Savior's birth. I hope he always remembers that, especially in the hard times in his life. I am so thankful for knowing this true meaning of Christmas. No matter the time of year, or where I am, the feeling of knowing that Christ, the Savior was born is the most important thing I'll ever know.

Definitely not as spiritual, but oh so exciting is waking up Christmas morning and enjoying the surprises of the children:


This couch is so adorable and Jade loves climbing all over it! Thank you, Papa Paul, Noi & Granny Great! It's just perfect for her and opens to a little bed too.


Not a Christmas morning present, but boxing gloves from Granny Chris & Papa Boone that James loves. TJ was given boxing gloves from his grandpa about the same age.


Even Moab enjoyed his stocking stuffer.

We had a wonderful Christmas dinner with my dad and his fiance'e, Noi, Granny Hane, Granny Joy and Grandpa Grubbs, Great Grandpa Carl, Uncle Guy, my mom and Eddie. I wish I'd gotten more pictures of everyone here, but we had a wonderful time with great food from everyone too. Christmas was a truly blessed day.