Sunday, July 27, 2008

Thats What I Love About Texas


Every once in a while you find a place that's like no where else you've been before. A place that is full of family values, but still rough enough that you don't get bored. A few weeks ago, while my sweet family was out of town, I had the opportunity of officiating at a wedding for some friends of ours. They were doing their ceremony at a little ranch just outside of Longview that I had never heard of before and even had a little trouble finding. It was then that I discovered the Sacred Spur Ranch. I say discovered as if I were Colombus discovering some strange new world ..... when in reality it was sort of like stepping back in time. Nestled in the middle of no where in the heart of east Texas is a restaurant/horse ranch that time forgot.... or rather that looked time in the face, spat in its eye and said "git along little doggie!" The owner, Bob Miller, gave me a tour of the facilities and he let me know that there was a live band that performed Friday and Saturday, that there was a dance floor, and that their steaks were the best around. Seeing the opportunity to get a big juicy Texas steak, under the ruse of taking my wife out dancing, was a very attractive proposition. I made sure to talk the place up to her, mentioning the dancing and band of coarse! And the first weekend she was back, that's where we went. This place is what East Texas is all about. If I wore a cowboy hat regularly it would be off to this wonderful establishment for reminding us how country is supposed to be. The band was awesome! The musicians were from small time acts such as Brooks and Dun and the lead singer was spectacular. We danced, we partied to the music, we had great food that was cooked on a home made grill! I have had the pleasure of living in different parts of the world, and eating allot of different kinds of food, and being in different environments. I've eaten piranha in the Amazons, Lechona in Ibague Colombia. I have even eaten what someone in Utah called BBQ (I was very embarrassed for them). But I have never been as impressed as what I was in going to this very rustic little ranch that had so much of what I love about East Texas. Tiff and I got to dance, I got my 18 oz Stake (I'm sure it was good for me) and we all had a great time. So I say you can go eat your tofu stake in New York - Ill take my food cooked on a homemade grill by a guy who still loves what he's doing. Ill take my music live and GOOD and I'll take my country East Texan style. And I'll take Texas over any of the other 49 states any day! Thank you Tiff for a wonderful date!

Monday, July 14, 2008

Happy 28th TJ!

TJ is now......................28 years old!!

I know TJ will love this picture to now show how mature he is to be in his late 20s. Actually, it's the most recent picture I could find from June since my computer crashed, but that's not the point.

Yesterday was TJ's birthday and this is the first year since we got engaged that I haven't got to be with him on his birthday. Actually, he asked me to marry him the day before his birthday in 2002 so what could I do? Say no? I've been at my family reunion, and although having fun, wishing he could be here too because I miss him tons!!!

I've been going through some of our pictures and realized all the great times we have together. I know I never appreciate TJ enough, but I love him sooooo much for just being the wonderful man he is. I just want to share some special tidbits about TJ for this special occasion:

1. TJ is first of all just a friendly, kind-hearted, loving, thoughtful, funny, and fun-loving guy. He is wonderful in so many ways. Just look at the pictures of some of his antics on the slideshow and you can tell all the great qualities about my husband.

2. TJ never forgets where he came from - his great parents, Jimmy & Chris. He always reminds me of their strong friendship and love as a couple that was such a great example to him. I'm forever grateful for their huge influence in helping TJ become the man he is today. They did all the things that parents do (A LOT!), and I see the lasting impact of their love and dedication to their only son.

3. He's my eternal companion - my love - my husband! I couldn't be more grateful for his not only willingness, but happiness to be with me (that takes a huge leap of faith, believe me). He never forgets to tell me he loves me and show it in a thousand different ways. He takes time to dance with me in the yard to a song on the radio, he helps me with all the little activities or family functions I've planned, he makes me laugh (even when I don't want to), he lets me cry, and he's just the man in my life. His faith and testimony of the gospel of Jesus Christ lifts me to do better - be more. I love him more all the time.

4. TJ is also an AWESOME DAD!!! I know James can't say that yet, but when I ask James what song he wants to sing, his reply is, "Dad." So I sing to him "I'm So Glad When Daddy Comes Home," and "My Daddy Is My Favorite Pal." He's always content and usually asks for "more" when I'm done singing. We've been talking to TJ through webcam since we've been gone for more than a week, and James gives his dad kisses without prompting and listens as he reads him a story on the screen. He's always smiles to see his Dad - just like Mom.

TJ, I love you. I thank Heavenly Father everyday for you and I pray always that he strengthens you in all your responsibilities to us and to others. I know you're tired a lot and don't have time to do all the fun things you'd like to do, but know how much we love and are soooooooooooo grateful for you, babe! Can't wait to see you Thursday!!!!!